Barbara Gaffney, 77, of Saint Helena Island, SC, died Saturday, September 19, 2015. ARRANGEMENTS BY PALMETTO CREMATION SOCIETY, CHARLESTON, SC. As I sit in Heaven And watch you every day, I try to let you know with signs I never went away I hear you when youâ€™re laughing And watch you as you sleep I even place my arms around you To calm you as you weep. I see you wish the days away Begging to have me home, So I try to send you signs So you know you are not alone. Donâ€™t feel guilty that you have Life that was denied to me. Heaven is truly beautiful . . . Just wait and you will see. So live your life, laugh again Enjoy yourself, be free. Then I know with every breath you take Youâ€™ll be taking one for me.